Hey now marriage isn't so bad!

While reading Marriage and Love all I could feel was the author resenting the idea of marriage and how it is "forced" upon us. She is saying how love does not always go with marriage, but I think it is apart of marriage more than she seems to think. There are different kinds of love so it is hugely possible that it is apart of marriage. You can have the passionate love that often does lead to marriage, or the friendship love that can happen after marriage. Often in arranged marriages the two people don't see or talk to each other before the marriage, but more often than not they do find love together through the marriage. Also, marriage is not forced on girls when we are little. Yes it is all around us, and most people do say that is the goal to life, but its not like everyone is saying we will die unless we get married. It seems that the author is stuck in the past and I just didn't like or agree with this article.